We are living in the 21 century but the slave of 18 century alike do or don'ts,likes dislikes,opinions of girls in middle class or lower middle class doesn't stand anywhere, you have to follow what your elder decides because they know what is right for you and your future.
Here wanna mention,might be they are HINDU,MUSLIM or SIKH. Religion doesn't matter. Every family have the same stories to tell to decide what your future must be decide by so called elders.
And if the girl is below avereage in her studies,she is DUMBO,NO-BRAIN,AMNORMAL,MENTALLY ILL etc etc. and get married with a fine men according to her. (YOU GET MORE THAN YOU DESERVE THAN YOUR (AUKAAT) VS STATUS.
The first mistake by elders not asking the opinion of the girls,if the girl is brillent though BAAD MEINE TO CHULLA CHOKKA sambhalna hai. WHAT EDUCATION DO PHIR DAHEJ BHI DENA HAI= ALAG SARDARD.
I always see so many peoples in india,this problem that problem and the solution of the problem is ,alternative medicines..........blindly without knowing the side effects of that and without the consultation of any Dr. .....................self made Dr. and when medicines over react rush to the respected once.
I really don't understand why every indians are so highly,intellectual to do there own doctrate.........must have to be rewarded (satire)
Well other type of intellectual are who are taking allopathic vs homeopathic vs ayurvedic. Experimenting with the body that any one suits them and give them the insistent relief,who I am to say anything to such intelletuals. Meanwhile the thing is what ever medicine to take have there side effects might be it any any medicines. If your body have voice it screams please don't do experiment on me .............so blindly. I can heal myself somehow.
I always a free spirit who thinks that if its my life so I have to decide who the best person for me to be with.....and why not. But if I want something or demand something its not find genuine by the so called society or by the people who lives in my surroundings. Be happy what you get,you get beyond your expectation or you get what you don't deserve to be,"WHO ARE YOU TO DECIDE WHAT I DESERVE FOR OR WHAT NOT" genuinely its something very stupid which irritates me.
I was a below average student in my carrier not a good scorer nor a good carrierist or say carrier oriented person but that doesn't designed my future that i have to marry with a below average student who has no carriers and at the same time no income,no job and demand......"OH MY GOD SO HUGE THAT NO ONE CAN EFFORT, WHATS YOUR PACKAGE". Now what is this package..........NO PACKAGE AT ALL.