Parents vs Paisa but no morals.
In todays time every body running behind the comforts. How to earn money and how lavishly spend it.I represent to the present youth as well others,but still single.My all friends who get married have their indivisual life. they live seperately without their parents and no one need to bear the responsibilty of thier parents.They have the space for thier kids but not for their parents even today the young generation too need thier own space.grand parents stoiry was tail now,several sort of books are available in the market.
In Indian society many a times it is a lot seen that parents have lost the significance from their son after his marriage and every now and then they have to face lots of disgrace too.
ReplyDeleteLots of parents undergo unaided as their ward never give enough time to them but in contrast do as they are told by the wife's pronouncement in the whole thing rather than parents.
"Maya ka Bandhan" gets in and one’s own parents become headache of them.
If we go depth in this subject …
Ask any person whether people amend subsequent to wedding ceremony and they will nod in the confirmatory.
This is for the reason that marriage changes the whole thing.
When a couple ties the knot, people who were once fundamental in their life are shifted.
Relationships with parents aside; the siblings and friends also become secondary at the same time since the significant other takes superiority in life.
Men develop into more wife-centric and less family-centric. At this instant, their partner accomplishes the role of a lover, companion and care-taker. He blindly situates his wife's outlook higher than that of his parents.
As two inhabitants from dissimilar family background come as one, they endeavor to beat a balance for making things work. In this course, they have to make chief adjustments and compromises.
However making an attempt to do this, they demand to identify their own individuality and progress as human beings. Subsequent to marriage, the couple use the largest part of their time for focal point on each other.
There is a line of elimination that looks as if to divide them from others.
Family members besides find it harsh to have room for this new 'change', on behalf of them their ward is no longer their prized possession but now an attached possession.
Getting married alters a person's community status. The couple will perhaps get familiar and put together friends with other married couples, sort of than hang out with their single friends as much. Both partners may have had a dissimilar circle of friends previous to marriage and neither of them feels secure to the other's friends.
Singles fritter more time with friends than family, just the once people get married, the proportion tilts the other way, at what time they have kids, they use up even less time with friends and further with their own nuclear family.
People struggle to preserve their friendships that distance crossways the marriage barrier whether they reside in their current location or shift.
Striking a balance is the key to maintaining harmonious relationships with other family members and friends.
Marriages are unquestionably wonderful, but they cannot congregate every single need we have.
Our lives are built on multiple relationships. The relationships we have with our families, spouses, children and friends are very important.
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ReplyDeleteBoth Parents and Children have their duties and if understood then ALL IS WELL …
How it goes??? Simple!!!
For Parents:-:
It is significant to be acquainted with a Truth that their child is God’s child. Child will sooner or later rise up and move out.
When he marries, he has become one with her before God. They have guaranteed never to abandon one other.
Most parents don’t understand this perception. They believe I am Mom or I am Dad. There should be no other person above anyone except God.
As a parent one require to value that they will always be their parent.
No one can take that from that and when their child marries, that individual is not taking their place only that person has developed into a priority in their life.
Complying with their other half is the same as obeying your parents.
God doesn’t perceive it any other way. If at marriage he has vowed to love his wife, then he have got to also support, honour and respect her, doing otherwise will be wrong in God’s eyes. One has to appreciate the importance of the commitment between husband & wife.
For Child:-:
Once they are married, they are gaining a new liaison. Even if they might have dated for years, it become brand new when married. We don’t wish for forgetting about the others,
Our Parents… It’s OK to do for them, support them and continue to have a wonderful relationship with the parents. Include them in our life and the astonishing new humanity we are living in.
We just have to become skilled at how to cope with the two. It is very tough especially if we have very demanding parents and a challenging spouse. Everyone needs us and everyone expects from us to do more for them. It gets irresistible.
But what we require to do is make sure that the other person understands married status now and understand parents will always be parents.
Their relationship with parents should nurture at this time. Because one is now entering a world that most people have already been accustom to. But we wish for in continuing to obey one parent.
Praying that they value the importance of marriage and still give one’s marriage, one’s relationship with one partner an opportunity to grow and be what God has intended it to be.
... Sanju